October 31, 2005

a pair of Jacks...

Recently, I learned that a Jack, I'd known, had died back in August. Turns out that he'd died 10 days before another Jack, I'd known, had passed away. Both died of cancers (of differing sorts, I believe).

They don't seem to have a lot in common, although both went by the name, Jack. I don't think they knew each other, although given their active pasts, I wouldn't be surprised if their paths had crossed.

Jack1 (the one who died first) seemed to have an avuncular fondness for me. I'm not sure why. But I didn't mind.

I sorta regret not having gone to a going-away dinner, over a year ago, honoring him and his wife. (This happened before they moved to California to be with children and grandchildren.)

They were honored for their role in enabling Japanese American redress. In the early 80's, they found documents in the National Archives (and elsewhere), that showed the U.S. government knew that Japanese Americans on the
West Coast weren't much of a threat during WWII. This was the "smoking gun" that allowed a legal team to overturn some key court cases that'd solidified the government's rationale for putting JA's in camps.

As for Jack2, he's much less known. I don't think his obituary can be easily found on the web, if at all. Although, I think that those who knew him found him to be a bit of a character. He liked to drive sporty cars. He'd been twice married, I was told.

He used to do a classical music show on the Harford community college station, WHFC (91.1 FM). He told me that he'd helped establish and operate the radio station at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute many years ago.

He spoke with a distinctive drawl. His words were all drawn out, and he chose them with care. (Sometimes you didn't know if he was going to finish his sentence.)

Because of this, I believe I may have encountered him well before I got to know him.

I had boarded a flight at BWI. It may have been sitting on the runway, waiting its turn to take off. And I got to talking with a fellow across the aisle with a heavy drawl. I thought that, perhaps, he sounded like he had a bit too much to drink.

The conversation took a curious turn when he mentioned he was going to China or thinking of going there to meet a potential wife. He thought that women in Asia (or did he use "Orient"?) were more caring of their spouses than those in America. And that the American woman doesn't know what she wants. He said this in a rather loud voice.

I was alarmed. I found his views about Chinese or Asian women to be rather stereotypical, somewhat outdated. Moreover, I was certain that any American woman within earshot was just itching to grab their nail file or other available sharp object and stab him a couple times.

So I replied with some obfuscatory remark about possible immigration legislation on Capitol Hill (based on something I may have read somewhere). That seemed to confuse him enough to halt his diatribe against American women. (Hmm, I wonder what he would've thought about Asian American women?)

Years after this, I was told about Jack2 having been twice married. I remembered the airplane conversation and wondered if that fellow and Jack2 were the same person.

Posted by raacluse at October 31, 2005 11:15 AM
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